The birth of Jacob and Esau - Ratner museum
The story of Jacob is full of human, flawed characters.
Take Rebekah. Once barren, she blessed by God with children. It makes you think she's been picked as a hero. But you quickly find out that she will be a partner in crime for the sibling rivalry between Jacob and Esau. She shows Jacob favoritism and to Esau, she is cruel.
Take Jacob. He's the 2nd born, but at birth he grabs his brother by the heel. He isn't content with his rightful place in the family. Led by his mother he eclipses Esau's rightful place as the firstborn by lying to their father Isaac. He comes off as spineless.
Take Isaac. For all his importance, he is an impotent father. He's not even able to bless the child he would prefer.
Esau is treated like collateral damage. The family is broken apart. This whole story is deeply troubling to me. And based on what God tells Rebekah at the beginning, none of this is surprising to God. Out of this messy soap opera of a family, the nation of Israel emerges. What are we to take away from this?
I take away comfort in knowing that God isn't done working on us. When we meet Jacob and Esau at the beginning, they are not fully formed. Esau loses his place within the family, but he marries well and pleases his father in the end. God kept on with Jacob and Jacob was transformed. Humbled, Jacob at the end of this is ready to serve God.
Genesis 25
19These are the descendants of Isaac, Abraham's son: Abraham was the father of Isaac,
20and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah, daughter of
Bethuel the
Aramean of
Paddan-
aram, sister of Laban the
Aramean.
21Isaac prayed to the LORD for his wife, because she was barren; and the LORD granted his prayer, and his wife Rebekah conceived.
22The children struggled together within her; and she said, "If it is to be this way, why do I live?" So she went to inquire of the LORD.
23And the LORD said to her,
"Two nations are in your womb,
and two peoples born of you shall be divided;
the one shall be stronger than the other,
the elder shall serve the younger."
24When her time to give birth was at hand, there were twins in her womb.
25The first came out red, all his body like a hairy mantle; so they named him Esau.
26Afterward his brother came out, with his hand gripping Esau's heel; so he was named Jacob. Isaac was sixty years old when she bore them.
27When the boys grew up, Esau was a skillful hunter, a man of the field, while Jacob was a quiet man, living in tents.
28Isaac loved Esau, because he was fond of game; but Rebekah loved Jacob.
29Once when Jacob was cooking a stew, Esau came in from the field, and he was famished.
30Esau said to Jacob, "Let me eat some of that red stuff, for I am famished!" (Therefore he was called
Edom.)
31Jacob said, "First sell me your birthright."
32Esau said, "I am about to die; of what use is a birthright to me?"
33Jacob said, "Swear to me first." So he swore to him, and sold his birthright to Jacob.
34Then Jacob gave Esau bread and lentil stew, and he ate and drank, and rose and went his way. Thus Esau despised his birthright.
Genesis 27
When Isaac was old and his eyes were dim so that he could not see, he called his elder son Esau and said to him, "My son"; and he answered, "Here I am."
2He said, "See, I am old; I do not know the day of my death.
3Now then, take your weapons, your quiver and your bow, and go out to the field, and hunt game for me.
4Then prepare for me savory food, such as I like, and bring it to me to eat, so that I may bless you before I die."
5Now Rebekah was listening when Isaac spoke to his son Esau. So when Esau went to the field to hunt for game and bring it,
6Rebekah said to her son Jacob, "I heard your father say to your brother Esau,
7'Bring me game, and prepare for me savory food to eat, that I may bless you before the LORD before I die.'
8Now therefore, my son, obey my word as I command you.
9Go to the flock, and get me two choice kids, so that I may prepare from them savory food for your father, such as he likes;
10and you shall take it to your father to eat, so that he may bless you before he dies."
11But Jacob said to his mother Rebekah, "Look, my brother Esau is a hairy man, and I am a man of smooth skin.
12Perhaps my father will feel me, and I shall seem to be mocking him, and bring a curse on myself and not a blessing."
13His mother said to him, "Let your curse be on me, my son; only obey my word, and go, get them for me."
14So he went and got them and brought them to his mother; and his mother prepared savory food, such as his father loved.
15Then Rebekah took the best garments of her elder son Esau, which were with her in the house, and put them on her younger son Jacob;
16and she put the skins of the kids on his hands and on the smooth part of his neck.
17Then she handed the savory food, and the bread that she had prepared, to her son Jacob.
18So he went in to his father, and said, "My father"; and he said, "Here I am; who are you, my son?"
19Jacob said to his father, "I am Esau your firstborn. I have done as you told me; now sit up and eat of my game, so that you may bless me."
20But Isaac said to his son, "How is it that you have found it so quickly, my son?" He answered, "Because the LORD your God granted me success."
21Then Isaac said to Jacob, "Come near, that I may feel you, my son, to know whether you are really my son Esau or not."
22So Jacob went up to his father Isaac, who felt him and said, "The voice is Jacob's voice, but the hands are the hands of Esau."
23He did not recognize him, because his hands were hairy like his brother Esau's hands; so he blessed him.
24He said, "Are you really my son Esau?" He answered, "I am."
25Then he said, "Bring it to me, that I may eat of my son's game and bless you." So he brought it to him, and he ate; and he brought him wine, and he drank.
26Then his father Isaac said to him, "Come near and kiss me, my son."
27So he came near and kissed him; and he smelled the smell of his garments, and blessed him, and said,
"Ah, the smell of my son
is like the smell of a field that the LORD has blessed.
28May God give you of the dew of heaven,
and of the fatness of the earth,
and plenty of grain and wine.
29Let peoples serve you,
and nations bow down to you.
Be lord over your brothers,
and may your mother's sons bow down to you.
Cursed be everyone who curses you,
and blessed be everyone who blesses you!"
30As soon as Isaac had finished blessing Jacob, when Jacob had scarcely gone out from the presence of his father Isaac, his brother Esau came in from his hunting.
31He also prepared savory food, and brought it to his father. And he said to his father, "Let my father sit up and eat of his son's game, so that you may bless me."
32His father Isaac said to him, "Who are you?" He answered, "I am your firstborn son, Esau."
33Then Isaac trembled violently, and said, "Who was it then that hunted game and brought it to me, and I ate it all before you came, and I have blessed him? — yes, and blessed he shall be!"
34When Esau heard his father's words, he cried out with an exceedingly great and bitter cry, and said to his father, "Bless me, me also, father!"
35But he said, "Your brother came deceitfully, and he has taken away your blessing."
36Esau said, "Is he not rightly named Jacob? For he has supplanted me these two times. He took away my birthright; and look, now he has taken away my blessing." Then he said, "Have you not reserved a blessing for me?"
37Isaac answered Esau, "I have already made him your lord, and I have given him all his brothers as servants, and with grain and wine I have sustained him. What then can I do for you, my son?"
38Esau said to his father, "Have you only one blessing, father? Bless me, me also, father!" And Esau lifted up his voice and wept.
39Then his father Isaac answered him:
"See, away from the fatness of the earth shall your home be,
and away from the dew of heaven on high.
40By your sword you shall live,
and you shall serve your brother;
but when you break loose,
you shall break his yoke from your neck."
41Now Esau hated Jacob because of the blessing with which his father had blessed him, and Esau said to himself, "The days of mourning for my father are approaching; then I will kill my brother Jacob."
42But the words of her elder son Esau were told to Rebekah; so she sent and called her younger son Jacob and said to him, "Your brother Esau is consoling himself by planning to kill you.
43Now therefore, my son, obey my voice; flee at once to my brother Laban in
Haran,
44and stay with him a while, until your brother's fury turns away —
45until your brother's anger against you turns away, and he forgets what you have done to him; then I will send, and bring you back from there. Why should I lose both of you in one day?"
46Then Rebekah said to Isaac, "I am weary of my life because of the Hittite women. If Jacob marries one of the Hittite women such as these, one of the women of the land, what good will my life be to me?"
Genesis 28
Then Isaac called Jacob and blessed him, and charged him, "You shall not marry one of the Canaanite women.
2Go at once to
Paddan-
aram to the house of
Bethuel, your mother's father; and take as wife from there one of the daughters of Laban, your mother's brother.
3May God Almighty bless you and make you fruitful and numerous, that you may become a company of peoples.
4May he give to you the blessing of Abraham, to you and to your offspring with you, so that you may take possession of the land where you now live as an alien — land that God gave to Abraham."
5Thus Isaac sent Jacob away; and he went to
Paddan-
aram, to Laban son of
Bethuel the
Aramean, the brother of Rebekah, Jacob's and Esau's mother.
6Now Esau saw that Isaac had blessed Jacob and sent him away to
Paddan-
aram to take a wife from there, and that as he blessed him he charged him, "You shall not marry one of the Canaanite women,"
7and that Jacob had obeyed his father and his mother and gone to
Paddan-
aram.
8So when Esau saw that the Canaanite women did not please his father Isaac,
9Esau went to Ishmael and took
Mahalath daughter of Abraham's son Ishmael, and sister of
Nebaioth, to be his wife in addition to the wives he had.
10Jacob left Beer-
sheba and went toward
Haran.
11He came to a certain place and stayed there for the night, because the sun had set. Taking one of the stones of the place, he put it under his head and lay down in that place.
12And he dreamed that there was a ladder set up on the earth, the top of it reaching to heaven; and the angels of God were ascending and descending on it.
13And the LORD stood beside him and said, "I am the LORD, the God of Abraham your father and the God of Isaac; the land on which you lie I will give to you and to your offspring;
14and your offspring shall be like the dust of the earth, and you shall spread abroad to the west and to the east and to the north and to the south; and all the families of the earth shall be blessed in you and in your offspring.
15Know that I am with you and will keep you wherever you go, and will bring you back to this land; for I will not leave you until I have done what I have promised you."
16Then Jacob woke from his sleep and said, "Surely the LORD is in this place — and I did not know it!"
17And he was afraid, and said, "How awesome is this place! This is none other than the house of God, and this is the gate of heaven."
18So Jacob rose early in the morning, and he took the stone that he had put under his head and set it up for a pillar and poured oil on the top of it.
19He called that place
Bethel; but the name of the city was Luz at the first.
20Then Jacob made a vow, saying, "If God will be with me, and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat and clothing to wear,
21so that I come again to my father's house in peace, then the LORD shall be my God,
22and this stone, which I have set up for a pillar, shall be God's house; and of all that you give me I will surely give one-tenth to you."